Memorial Day on the Monterey Peninsula: Honoring the Past, Embracing the Present

Memorial Day marks the unofficial start of summer in the United States, and here on the Monterey Peninsula, that shift feels as real as the marine layer lifting off the coast. The days stretch longer, patios fill up, and the shoreline gets busier—but at its heart, Memorial Day is a solemn holiday, rich with meaning and history.

As we fire up the grills and pack our beach bags, it’s worth pausing to reflect on where Memorial Day began, and why we still honor it today.

The Origins of Memorial Day

Memorial Day dates back to the years following the Civil War. Originally known as Decoration Day, it began as a time to decorate the graves of fallen soldiers with flowers, flags, and mementos of honor. The exact birthplace of Memorial Day is a topic of debate, with over two dozen cities claiming to be its origin, but in 1966, the federal government officially designated Waterloo, New York as the holiday's birthplace.

After World War I, the day evolved to honor all American military personnel who died in any war—not just the Civil War. In 1971, Memorial Day became a federal holiday and was moved to the last Monday in May, giving rise to the three-day weekend tradition that so many now associate with early summer escapes and family gatherings.

But while barbecues and beach days are part of the modern experience, Memorial Day is still at its core a day of remembrance. Flags fly at half-staff until noon, and many towns and cities host parades, memorial services, or moments of silence to reflect on the sacrifices made by so many.

Memorial Day Weekend on the Monterey Peninsula

There’s something uniquely moving about observing Memorial Day here on the Monterey Peninsula—a place so deeply tied to both natural beauty and American military history. From the Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey to the Presidio and historic Fort Ord, our region has long been connected to the armed forces.

This weekend, that connection is reflected in both quiet tributes and lively community events. While some calendars are still updating, here's a look at what's happening around town, plus ideas for how to spend a memorable weekend:

Attend a Local Memorial Ceremony

Pacific Grove’s Annual Memorial Day Ceremony
Traditionally held at the Pacific Grove Cemetery, this heartfelt ceremony honors local veterans and those who served. Expect a color guard, guest speakers, and a community spirit that captures the true meaning of the holiday.

Monterey’s Presidio of Monterey Cemetery Ceremony
Often hosted in coordination with the U.S. Army and other local military organizations, this service provides a respectful, formal moment to pay tribute to the fallen.

Even if you’re just passing by a flag-draped headstone or pausing at the Monterey County Vietnam Veterans Memorial near the airport, it's worth taking a moment to acknowledge the history underfoot.

Go to the Beach—But Make It Meaningful

Memorial Day weekend is a perfect time to enjoy the coast, and Monterey County offers some of the best spots anywhere:

Asilomar State Beach in Pacific Grove: Stunning views and great tide pooling. Bring a blanket, snacks, and perhaps a journal—it's a peaceful place to reflect.

Carmel Beach: One of the most iconic coastlines in California, and ideal for an early morning walk with coffee or a sunset picnic.

Del Monte Beach in Monterey: A little more under the radar, great for families and quieter gatherings.

Want to do something a little different? Consider organizing a small, informal beach clean-up with friends or family. It’s a meaningful way to honor the day while giving back to this incredible place we get to call home.

Hit a Memorial Day Sale… or Just Stroll the Markets

Memorial Day is known for sales and deals, and while that can feel consumer-heavy, supporting local businesses is always a good idea.

Carmel-by-the-Sea: Stroll through downtown, check out boutique shops, and sip on something bubbly at a wine tasting room.

Barnyard Farmers Market in Carmel: Held on Tuesday afternoons, but pop by over the weekend for shopping or dining—some businesses have Memorial Day specials.

Del Monte Shopping Center: Retailers often host weekend sales, and you might even catch live music in the courtyard.

And let’s be honest: the act of browsing shops in walkable, charming towns is part of what makes the Monterey Peninsula so unique.

Food, Fun & Family Time

Here are some great ways to enjoy the long weekend with a little flavor:

Grill with a View: Pack a picnic and head to Lovers Point or Veterans Memorial Park in Monterey. Both offer BBQ areas with incredible scenery.

Go Wine Tasting in Carmel Valley: A relaxed drive inland takes you to warmer weather and a handful of family-friendly wineries—think picnic tables, lawn games, and vineyards for days.

Old Fisherman’s Wharf: Classic, yes—but still worth a visit for clam chowder, boat watching, or even a glass-bottom boat tour.

Looking for something active? Rent e-bikes in Pacific Grove and cruise the Recreation Trail from Lovers Point to Cannery Row and beyond. It’s scenic, breezy, and just the right speed.

Why This Place Matters—Especially Now

Living on the Monterey Peninsula is a gift—one that becomes even more evident on weekends like this. The blend of coastal beauty, community pride, and historical richness makes it not just a place to vacation, but a place to invest in and call home.

Real estate here is more than a transaction—it’s about lifestyle. Whether you're watching a Memorial Day parade with your neighbors, planting flags with your kids, or hosting a backyard BBQ with a view of the ocean, these are the moments that make a house feel like a home.

For many, this weekend serves as a gentle reminder: life is short, community matters, and creating a meaningful life in a place you love is the best way to honor the time we’re given.

Closing Thoughts

Memorial Day weekend on the Monterey Peninsula is equal parts remembrance and renewal. As you light your grill or dip your toes in the surf, take a moment to reflect on what this holiday really stands for. Then lean in to all the beauty, flavor, and small-town charm this place has to offer.

If you’re already lucky enough to live here, you know what I mean. And if you’re thinking about making this your home—or even just planting deeper roots—we’d be honored to help guide the way.

Wishing you a meaningful, joyful, and sunshine-filled Memorial Day Weekend.